SFI.COZA

A Book Review: Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie, ”The Thing Around Your Neck” – Raw, Relatable, and So Damn Brilliant

A Book Review: Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie, ''The Thing Around Your Neck'' – Raw, Relatable, and So Damn Brilliant

ADVERTISEMENT

I once told a friend that reading Chimamanda is like taking a walk barefoot in the middle of the street; you’re moved, a little bruised, but more alive than ever.

As the lead copywriter here at SFI.COZA magazine, I read a lot. Some books are great. Some are meh. And then… there’s The Thing Around Your Neck. It didn’t just touch me; it grabbed my throat, squeezed gently, and whispered, “This is you. This is us. This is home.”

About the Book

The Thing Around Your Neck is a short-story collection by Nigerian author Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie, first published in April 2009 by Fourth Estate in the UK and by Knopf in the US. It received many positive reviews, including: “She makes storytelling seem as easy as birdsong”; “Stunning. Wikipedia

Originally published: April 2009

Author: Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie

Genres: FictionBildungsroman

Pages: 300

Now, before you ask, intellectual book reviews where I overuse the word “juxtaposition.” This is real. Personal. And if you’re South African, Nigerian, Kenyan, or Ghanaian, heck, if you’re African and breathing, you needed to read this book yesterday.

Let’s unpack it.


image 78

There are 12 short stories in this collection. Twelve. But don’t be fooled by the length. Each one? A little detonation.

They don’t ask for your attention. They demand it.

We’re talking:

  • Immigrants in America are realizing the dream isn’t quite dreamy.
  • Girls navigating religious power plays and patriarchal politics.
  • Lovers who lose more than just time.
  • Silence is louder than screams.

image 79

Chimamanda writes like she’s not trying to impress you. And that’s exactly why it’s impressive.

Her sentences are like cold water on a hot day, simple, refreshing, and a little shocking. There’s no fluff here. Just truth. And somehow, she makes the mundane feel sacred.

For example, in the titular story “The Thing Around Your Neck,” a young Nigerian woman moves to America. She expects luxury and bright lights. What does she get? Loneliness. Microwaved food. An American boyfriend who means well but doesn’t “get it.” Sound familiar?

You feel that ache. That quiet homesickness. That slow unraveling of identity.

See also  Why Embracing Challenges Can Transform Your Life

Let’s talk feelings, because The Thing Around Your Neck doesn’t just entertain; It excavates.

It pulls out:

  • The guilt of privilege.
  • The anxiety of not fitting in.
  • The grief of being misunderstood.
  • The rage of being erased.

These are stories that make you sit up straighter. They whisper to the parts of you you’ve been ignoring. They stir something old and loud inside. You won’t just read this book—you’ll remember it.


You.

  • If you’re African and tired of reading Western stories where we only exist as background noise, this book’s for you.
  • If you’re a writer and you think “relatable” means boring, this book will humble you.
  • If you’ve ever felt caught between two places, two versions of yourself, or two passports—this book will hug you and slap you.

Honestly? This book is for people who are tired of pretending.


If you landed here from Google, you probably typed something like “A Book Review: Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie, The Thing Around Your Neck” or “Why everyone is obsessed with Chimamanda’s short stories.”

Welcome. You’re not here by mistake.

This review was written with keywords that matter. We optimized it for search intent—which means we know you’re not just looking for a plot summary. You want insight. Emotion. Validation. And that’s what we do here at SFI.COZA magazine. We don’t just write to be read. We write to be felt.


📌 “Imitation” – A woman living in the U.S. finds out her husband’s cheating back home. But what really stings? She’s not even shocked.

📌 “Cell One” – A Nigerian university student ends up in jail. The real criminal? The system. The story feels so close; I had to double-check it wasn’t on ENCA.

📌 “The Arrangers of Marriage” – This one hurt. Bad. The language, the control, the swallowing of one’s entire identity.

See also  Google Cloud Region Launches in Johannesburg: A Game-Changer for South Africa

Each story peels away a layer. By the end, you feel bare. Seen. Exposed.


Let me answer you like this—don’t read it because it’s award-winning or because it’s “good for the culture. ” Read it because it will change something inside you. And that’s rare. We scroll past a million things every day. But this book? It won’t let you scroll past yourself.


At SFI.COZA magazine, our job is to bring African brilliance to the front. We’re not here to make you “woke” in theory. We’re here to shake you awake, in practice.

Chimamanda’s The Thing Around Your Neck reminds us that our stories matter. That the small things, like jollof at midnight or awkward silence with a parent—are not small at all.

They’re sacred. They’re enough. They’re powerful.


– Go get the book. Kindle. Library. Your cousin’s shelf. Doesn’t matter. Just read it.
– When you’re done, sit with it. Don’t rush.
– Share this review. Let’s stop keeping beautiful things a secret.
– And lastly, comment below. Was I wrong? Did you feel it too?

Until next page-turner—stay brilliant. Stay African.

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed.

5/5 - (1 vote)
LOGO SFI.COZA
Editor | tzuma34@gmail.com | Website

We at SFI.COZA think that stories have the ability to educate, uplift, and unite people. As a sociable and committed editor, we work hard to provide rich media coverage that connects with our audience. Our ambition to positively touch our audience's lives, one article at a time, is equal to our enthusiasm for storytelling. Come along on this adventure with us as we explore the planet.

THERE'S SO MUCH MORE

How_to_start_investing_in_EasyEquities__17_-removebg-preview
Retail price of the Jordan 4 Off-White in SA is R3995.00.
Prices for a pair of the Jordan 4 Off White in South Africa can vary depending on which store you vi...
7 Habits of Highly Chill People That You Should Adopt Today
7 Habits of Highly Chill People That You Should Adopt Today
Ever wondered how some people seem to float through life with an air of calm that makes you think they’ve...

LATEST NEWS

Samthin’ uSunday: Music, Rooftops, and Cultural Rhythm (Q&A with the Team) by Sabelo Khanyile
Samthin’ uSunday: Music, Rooftops, and Cultural Rhythm (Q&A with the Team) by Sabelo Khanyile
When someone says, “Sunday session,” most...
Wisdom & Wellness podcast with Mpoomy Ledwaba and Brenden Praise - Sponsored by 1Life
Wisdom & Wellness podcast with Mpoomy Ledwaba and Brenden Praise – Sponsored by 1Life
In a compelling episode of the Wisdom &...

Get the latest updates

error: Content is protected !!