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“The Peace The World Cannot Give” By Basetsana Hlungwani 

"The Peace The World Cannot Give" By Basetsana Hlungwani 

There comes a point in life where we realize that growing up is not only about age but also about carrying responsibilities, facing uncertainty; dealing with pressure from social media, disappointments, and failures; and fighting internal battles that nobody else sees. Sometimes the noise becomes so overwhelming that even making a simple decision feels difficult because there are too many voices fighting for our attention. 

In the middle of all this, many people search for peace. Some look for it in money, relationships, achievements, distractions, or temporary pleasures. The world teaches us that peace comes when everything around us is finally perfect. It tells us that peace is the absence of problems, pains, or inconvenience. But the truth is, life will always have challenges. There will always be seasons of uncertainty, heartbreak, waiting, pressure, and change. Jesus Himself told us in John 16:33 that in this world we will face troubles, but we should take heart because He has overcome the world.

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This is why the peace of Jesus is so different. Jesus said in John 14 verse 27, “Peace I leave with you, My peace I give to you. I do not give to you as the world gives”. His peace is not dependent on situations being easy. It is deeper than emotions and stronger than circumstances. It does not mean that challenges suddenly disappear or that life becomes painless. Instead, it means that even in the middle of difficulties, we remain calm. We stop panicking about every situation. Fear no longer controls our minds because we trust that even painful seasons are part of a greater process that God understands completely. The Bible reminds us in Philippians 4 verse 6-7, not to be anxious about anything, but to pray about everything. When we bring our worries to God, His peace guards our hearts and minds. This peace cannot always be explained logically because it goes beyond human understanding. It keeps us grounded even when life feels unstable.

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From my personal experience, I spent a long time trying to find peace through the world’s definition of it. I thought peace meant having everything figured out, avoiding struggles, or constantly feeling happy. But none of those things lasted. The more I depended on temporary things, the more restless I became internally. Then God slowly drew me closer to Himself, and I experienced a kind of peace I had never known before. 

Now, even when situations become stressful or overwhelming, I notice that my reaction is different. I no longer respond instantly with fear or panic. Sometimes I simply sigh, laugh softly, and continue with my day because deep within me there is a reminder that God is still in control. Isaiah 26 verse 3 says that God keeps in perfect peace those whose minds are stayed on Him because they trust in Him. His peace constantly reminds me that He is God and that He lives in me. That understanding changes everything.

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The world’s idea of peace often focuses on escaping reality, but God’s peace teaches us how to remain steady within reality. It teaches us endurance, trust, patience, and surrender. Romans 8 verse 28 reminds us that all things work together for the good of those who love God and are called according to His purpose. Even difficult seasons are not wasted in the hands of God. Sometimes we need to pause, reflect, pray, and then press on. Not because life is easy, but because we know we are not walking through it alone. Psalms 46, verse 10, says, “Be still, and know that I and God.” In stillness, we are reminded that God remains sovereign over every situation we face.

“True peace is not found in a perfect life. It is found in the presence of God”. 

10 responses to ““The Peace The World Cannot Give” By Basetsana Hlungwani ”

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    Iindiwe

    That is true Basie, Peace of Jesus is deeper than we thought no one can give it to you

    Amen

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      Basetsana

      Amen, Lindiwe 🙏🏽

      It really goes deeper than what we can explain or find in the world. His peace stays with us even when everything around us is not okay.

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    Dk

    “Peace I leave with you; My peace I give to you. I do not give to you as the world gives.” This is one of the verses I’ve held onto from the very day I came across it. Congratulations on yet another beautiful and inspiring piece 👏🏽

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      Basetsana

      Thank you so much, DK. That verse is honestly so special to me too. I’m really glad the piece spoke to you and thank you for always supporting my writing 🙏🏽

  3. unnamed 1 e1769007203373

    Yhoooooo, what a piece about peace. Loving how you referred the whole piece to the bible, how you made me realise that it is actually God’s peace that is within me.

    Great piece 👌👌👌👌

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      Basetsana

      Thank you so much, Thami 🙏🏾 I’m really grateful that the message spoke to your heart and reminded you of the peace that comes from God alone. Sometimes we forget that His peace is already within us, even in difficult seasons.

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    Karabo Lumkwana

    Peace beyond human understanding, now we understand when the Bible calls Jesus the Prince of Peace. This is beautifully written, Hlungs.

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      Basetsana

      Thank you so much Karabo , oh indeed Jesus really is the Prince of Peace, and His peace carries us in ways human understanding cannot explain. Thank you for reading and for your kind words, they mean a lot to me .

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    Kelebogile

    I feel like you always know what I go through when your write ur book….I am highly inspired and blessed at the same time…thank u Mrs Hlungwani

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      Basetsana

      Thank you so much Kelebogile 🥺❤️ Your words truly mean a lot to me. I’m grateful that my writing speaks to your heart and encourages you in some way. May God continue to bless and uplift you always. Thank you for reading and supporting my work

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Healing from the Inside Out: Where Faith Meets the Mind By Basetsana Hlungwani

Healing from the Inside Out: Where Faith Meets the Mind By Basetsana Hlungwani

Healing does not always arrive in dramatic or visible ways. For me, it often begins with the simple choice to get out of bed when my heart feels heavy or to whisper a quiet prayer amid worry. Sometimes, it is trusting God even when everything feels uncertain. Over time, I have come to see that my healing lives at the intersection of faith and psychology, where belief meets the mind’s slow process of recovering from pain.

I once believed that if I prayed enough, everything would fall into place. Yet, I have walked through seasons of loneliness, disillusionment, and mental exhaustion. I love God deeply, but there were moments when I felt overwhelmed, as if my prayers echoed into silence. Slowly, I realized that my faith was not failing me, what I truly needed was patience with myself, self-compassion, and honesty about what I was feeling. When I allowed my emotions to surface rather than suppressing them, subtle but meaningful changes began to take place. Faith did not remove my suffering but gave me strength to carry it (Koenig, 2021).

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Healing has never been quick or straightforward for me. I often asked why it seemed to take so long, especially in a world that values immediate results. During seasons of uncertainty, I learned that taking time to heal does not mean something is wrong with me or my faith. Emotional suffering is part of being human, not a sign of weakness. Faith reminds me that transformation can occur beneath the surface, even when it feels invisible (Koenig, 2021).

I have also learned that faith does not require pretending that everything is okay. Instead, it creates space for honesty and emotional transparency. Expressing emotions supports healing, while repressing them deepens stress. Through prayer, worship, quiet reflection, and intentional stillness, I have experienced my mind slowly releasing what it had been holding. Scripture reassures me: “The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit” (Psalm 34:18, NIV). Healing became possible when I acknowledged my suffering with compassion rather than ignoring it (Swinton, 2007).

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Pain, I have discovered, is not only something to endure; it shapes us. My experiences have shown that adversity can foster resilience and deepen emotional awareness. Faith gives that pain meaning, helping me understand suffering as part of a larger story rather than a dead end. Pargament (1997) explains that faith allows individuals to interpret hardship in ways that offer purpose and hope, even when circumstances feel overwhelming. Walking through seasons of uncertainty has taught me empathy, patience, and a deeper dependence on God. Healing, for me, did not come from erasing what wounded me, it came from learning to become whole again while carrying those experiences with honesty and faith.

Healing Doesn’t Mean No Pain

I have also realized that healing does not mean the absence of pain. It means that suffering no longer controls my life. Faith teaches perseverance rather than avoidance (Koenig, 2021). Recovery is measured not by what hurts less, but by my ability to move forward without being defined by past pain.

Trusting God during healing often asks me to live without certainty. I have slowly learned that progress can coexist with unanswered questions. Through prayer, meditation, and introspection, I have felt moments of calm, hope, and grounding. Healing is rarely linear; some days feel lighter than others, yet God walks with me through every turn, not just at the finish line.

Faith and Psychology as Partners

I no longer see psychology and faith as opposing forces; they are partners. Psychology helps me understand how healing happens within the mind and body, while faith gives meaning to why the process matters. Faith transforms the messy work of recovery into something purposeful, strengthening resilience and nurturing hope (Koenig, 2021). For me, God has become one of the deepest sources of healing.

Healing from the Inside Out

Healing, I have learned, is a journey, not a deadline. It requires honesty with God, courage to do the inner work, and patience to trust the process. I choose to let faith and growth walk together, allowing healing to unfold from the inside out, slowly, quietly, and beautifully

16 responses to “Healing from the Inside Out: Where Faith Meets the Mind By Basetsana Hlungwani”

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    Patrick

    Another breathtaking article, this one feels very close to home and has that personal touch. You are a blessing to many who may be going rough similar situations. Keep opening people’s eyes and feeding their souls.

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      Basetsana

      Patrick, thank you so much for these powerful words 🙏🏾❤️. I’m truly grateful that it felt personal and close to home for you. Your encouragement means more than you know. May God continue to use the words to touch and uplift many. 🙌🏾

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    Bornwise

    So profound, we heal differently. We must Put God first in everything we must ask for wisdom.

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      Basetsana

      Bornwise, so true 🙏🏾. We all heal differently, and putting God first gives us the wisdom and strength we need. Thank you for this powerful reminder. 🙌🏾

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    Camagwini

    Super super proud of you!!!

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      Basetsana

      Camagwini 🥺❤️
      Thank you so, so much! Your support means more to me than you know. I truly appreciate you. 🙏🏾

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    Makondo Xihluke

    Oh.. 🙏🏾❤️I appreciate how it acknowledges that faith does not always remove hardship, but instead strengthens us to endure it. The realization that patience, self-compassion, and emotional honesty are just as important as prayer is very meaningful. It reminds us that faith and mental well-being can work together — not by eliminating suffering, but by helping us grow through it. Thank you for sharing such a vulnerable and insightful 🙏🏾🙏🏾😌😭perspective.

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      Basetsana

      Xihluke, thank you so much for your beautiful feedback 🙏🏾❤️

      I truly appreciate your reflection and the way you understood the message. It means a lot to me.

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    Sibongile

    This is such a beautiful read both reassuring and teachable
    how the writer integratess faith and psychology is the most realistic thing in this day and age

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      Basetsana

      Sibongile, thank you so much for your kind words ❤️

      I truly appreciate that you noticed the integration of faith and psychology. It means a lot to know it felt both reassuring and realistic to you. 🙏🏾

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    Thandeka

    Healing requires honesty with God🥺Thank you so much sis I really needed this ❤️‍🩹

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      Basetsana

      Oh Thandeka 🥺❤️, yes, it truly does. Healing begins when we are honest with God about what we are carrying. I’m so glad this came at the right time for you. May He continue to meet you gently and restore your heart. 🙏🏽

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    Nomsa

    Indeed healing starts by accepting that you are in pain and allowing God to be the healer…..❤️thank you Pastor Bassie🙌

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      Basetsana

      Nomsa, amen to that ❤️
      Healing truly begins with honesty about our pain and trusting God to restore us. Thank you for your beautiful words and for receiving the message so deeply. 🙏🏽

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    Basetsana

    Kelebogile, this means so much to me ❤️
    I’m so grateful the book brought you peace and answered what your heart was carrying. That’s what healing from the inside out is about.

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    Kelebogile

    😭😭just when I had unanswered question..then I read this book. Thank you my heart is at ease..❤️❤️

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Rethinking Gender-Based Violence in South Africa By Basetsana Hlungwani

Rethinking Gender-Based Violence in South Africa By Basetsana Hlungwani

Gender-Based Violence (GBV) in South Africa is often framed as a women’s issue. While women face alarming levels of abuse, this narrative leaves another truth in the shadows: men suffer too, and their silence is killing them. The problem is not that their suffering does not exist; it is that society has trained itself not to see it.


From a young age, boys are told that “real men don’t cry” or that strength means silence. They grow up believing that abuse is something men do, not something that can also be done to them. As a result, thousands of men across the country suffer quietly behind closed doors, trapped in homes where they are mocked, beaten, emotionally broken, or falsely accused, with no one to defend them.

These stories rarely make headlines. And when men do speak out, society often laughs, mocks, or questions their masculinity. This silence is not harmless, it destroys lives.


I have witnessed this reality within my own family. My brother, gentle, hardworking, and soft-spoken, was judged harshly when he tried to defend himself from an attack by a woman. Without hearing his side of the story, we assumed he was the aggressor. Only when he revealed the physical scars on his body, we recognized the truth: he was the one being abused. The weight of that moment shattered me. I saw with my own eyes how easily we dismiss men’s pain and how quickly society rushes to label them, even when they are the ones bleeding.

And this is not an isolated situation. My brother has been trapped in an abusive relationship for almost six months. This woman beats him, insults him, and publicly degrades him by saying he “has nothing but a bed and a car.” Yet this same man has been providing for her four children, who are not even his. He has been carrying a family that continues to emotionally and physically tear him down, while she plays the victim to the outside world. This reality underscores the urgent need for inclusive support systems.

Research supports this hidden reality. A study by Tsoaledi Daniel Thobejane and Victor Luthada titled “An Investigation into the Trend of Domestic Violence on Men: The Case of South Africa” (University of Venda; published in the OIDA International Journal of Sustainable Development) reveals that male victims of domestic violence are “hard to reach” because of stigma and societal expectations.

  • The study highlights that:
  • Men are discouraged from showing pain due to masculinity norms.
  • Many fears being laughed at by society, friends, and even police
  • officers.
  • Women who abuse often position themselves as victims, making it
  • difficult for men to be believed.
  • Domestic violence against men is not new but deeply underreported.
  • Law enforcement structures and institutions are still not equipped to
  • Support male victims fairly.

  • The crisis runs deeper than personal stories. South African data shows:
  • 1 in 5 South African men has experienced domestic or intimate partner
  • violence in their lifetime (Human Sciences Research Council, 2021).
  • In 2022, the South African Police Service (SAPS) recorded over 26,000
  • male victims of assault, with many incidents linked to domestic settings.
  • The University of Venda study reported that 31% of men surveyed had
  • experienced emotional, physical, or economic abuse from a partner.
  • Research in the OIDA International Journal of Sustainable Development
  • shows that 60% of male victims do not report abuse, mainly due to
  • shame, fear of disbelief, and the stigma of appearing “weak.”


These statistics reveal a painful truth: male victims are not rare, they are simply unheard. The study argues that focusing solely on violence against women has left a gap where men’s suffering is unseen and unacknowledged, despite growing evidence of abuse against them. It calls for an unbiased approach that recognizes domestic violence as a human issue, not a gendered one.

Today, men sit in jail because of false accusations. Boys take their own lives after being blamed for things they never did. And when the truth finally surfaces, society moves on as though nothing happened.

Government, NGOs, and communities must expand GBV programs to include men, ensuring that every victim, regardless of gender, has access to justice and support.


We must do better. We must teach our children, boys and girls, that abuse has no gender. We must create safe spaces where men can express pain without being shamed.


Supporting men does not threaten women’s empowerment; it strengthens it. justice, fairness, and humanity. Because every victim deserves to be heard. Every story deserves to be believed. Every life deserves protection, not just some. It is time to let men speak. It is time to listen without judgment. Their silence is killing them, and we cannot afford to ignore it any longer.

42 responses to “Rethinking Gender-Based Violence in South Africa By Basetsana Hlungwani”

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    Lehlohonolo Mofokeng

    I can relate to this in more ways than one. This is a very insightful piece im genuinely touched by the research and detail put into it to highlight men’s everyday struggles . Great piece Basetsana 🔥🤞🏾

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    Tshiddy

    This truth cuts deep 💔. For too long, our brothers have been bleeding in silence, carrying scars that the world refuses to see. Society says “be strong,” but strength is not silence, it is speaking, it is healing. Abuse has no gender, and justice has no favorites. Supporting men does not weaken women; it strengthens humanity.

    Basetsana, thank you for breaking the silence. May this be the start of a new chapter where every victim, sister or brother, is heard, believed, and protected. Because pain ignored becomes pain repeated, and silence is killing us all.

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      Basetsana

      Tshidi, thank you so much for your kind words. They really mean a lot to me. I believe no one should suffer in silence. Men and women both deserve to be heard, believed, and protected. When we speak up, healing can begin. Let us keep supporting each other and standing for justice for everyone.

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    Pulane

    This is the plain truth, I wish more people will take time to read this as it’s educating us, that man are victims too in the gender based violence, but often tune we aknowledge women’s feelings more and tend to brush off the male feelings. Eish this is very educational thank you

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      Basetsana

      Absolutely, Pulani! It’s so important to remember that men can be victims too, and their experiences deserve to be heard and acknowledged. Thank you for taking the time to read and reflect on this 🙏

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    Gift

    Absolutely true we always see men as perpetrators and not victims in gender base violence, may this change our perception

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      Basetsana

      Exactly Gift. Shifting our mindset to see men as potential victims too is so important. Awareness is the first step toward change 🙏🏽.

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    Cama

    Thank you for highlighting this, it is an important and often overlooked part of the GB conversation. Harmful ideas about masculinity, like the belief that men must be silent or strong at all costs, do real damage and prevent many men from seeking help when they experience abuse. Creating space for these stories matters, because violence is never acceptable, no matter who experiences it. At the same time it’s also important that this broad conversation continues to sit alongside the reality that women and girls remain the most affected by GPV, particularly in its most severe forms. This article definitely strengthens the argument that both of these truths exist and need to be examined.

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      Basetsana

      Thank you so much for your thoughtful comment, Camagwini. I completely agree, challenging harmful ideas about masculinity is crucial, and giving men a safe space to share their experiences is part of addressing gender-based violence as a whole. At the same time, acknowledging the disproportionate impact on women and girls is equally important. I’m glad the article helped highlight both sides of this complex issue.

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    Okay, this is a real thing, real talk. I love the way you detailed your brother’s story, and how creditable your research is. Hope it will reach the Government and GVB organisation for further assistance. This is real, this is as true as the unpurified gold. 👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌

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      Basetsana

      Thank you so much for this Thamsanqa,🙏🏽 I really appreciate you taking the time to read and engage. This story is real, and sharing it wasn’t easy, but it’s necessary. Silence only protects the violence. My hope is exactly that—that it reaches those in power and the organisations meant to protect people. Conversations like this matter, and your support truly means a lot.

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    Thank you for saying what so many men are scared to say. This matters.

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      Basetsana

      Thank you Sidney. It means alot to hear this. Speaking up takes courage and yes, this does matter and we cant afford to keep quiet anymore

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    Tshepiso

    Wow, this is beautiful. Well written. Indeed it’s a must read

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      Basetsana

      Thank you so much, Tshepiso 🙏🏽 I really appreciate it.

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    Sam

    It is so heart warming seeing that there are women out there who can come out and express what really man’s are going through out there. Yes, we do not condone GBV. However, not many has ever sat down and think deep about the situation behind. Thanks for raising matter Basetsana.

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      Basetsana Hlungwani

      Thank you so much, Sam. I really appreciate this perspective 🙏🏽 the conversation needs honesty and balance.

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    Patrick Makondo

    This article is well articulated and shows a balanced research. I love how you also indicate possible remedies to curb future abuses. Well written, keep it up.

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      Basetsana Hlungwani

      Thank you very much, Patrick. I truly appreciate your thoughtful feedback. I’m glad the article came across as balanced and that the proposed remedies were clear and meaningful. Conversations like these are important in shaping understanding and encouraging responsible action. Your encouragement means a lot, thank you for taking the time to read the article.

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    Sarah

    Well written . Emotions poured out. Truth told.
    These are the voices we need to hear.

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        Basetsana Hlungwani

        Thank you so much, Sarah. That truly means a lot to me. I’m grateful the message resonated . These conversations matter, and I appreciate your support

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    Anna Zanele Nkuna

    I love the fact that you stated that the old needs to teach the young and emphasize that “abuse has no gender” as I strongly believe in the saying that ligotshwa lisemanzi and also we also need to be and set good examples to the young.Insightful piece indeed💡👏💐

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      We love and admire your comment Zanele, thank you for your contribution.

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      Basetsana Hlungwani

      Thank you so much, Annah. I really appreciate your insight and how you connected it with “ligotshwa lisemanzi.” It’s true, guidance starts early, and setting the right example is just as important as teaching

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    Daphney

    A Very good article. The heading on its own says a lot. This should reach many out there. Men’s emotions matter too

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      Thank you for your contribution Daphney

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      Basetsana Hlungwani

      Thank you so much, Daphney. I truly appreciate your support. I’m glad the heading and message resonated with you, and I completely agree, men’s emotions matter and deserve to be heard.

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    Thato

    A powerful and necessary read. If we want real solutions, we must acknowledge all victims and listen without bias.

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      Gift

      heart warming

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      Basetsana Hlungwani

      Thank you, Gift!

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      Basetsana Hlungwani

      Thank you, Thato. I truly appreciate this reflection. You’re absolutely right, real solutions begin when we acknowledge all victims and listen with openness and without bias. Your support means a lot.

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    Soyani Kleinbooi

    A well researched written article. I like how you supported your writing with well researched facts from authoritative organizations and scholars. ❤️

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      A warm welcome and a thank you to Soyani. Basetsana has empowered us all with her writing and supportive research, which helps us and other organizations to use her piece as a guide to other case studies

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      Basetsana Hlungwani

      Thank you so much, Soyani. I really appreciate your kind words and I’m glad the research and sources came through clearly. It means a lot that the effort to back the writing with credible facts was noticed

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    Dimakatso Selowa

    Such a beautiful and deeply touching piece! The way you included your brother’s story brought so much depth and honesty to the message. Your perspective on rethinking gender-based violence through the lens of men is powerful and truly needed. I’m so proud of you for writing this and using your voice to spark meaningful reflection and conversation. Well done!

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      Thank you for your contribution too, Dimakatso.

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      Basetsana Hlungwani

      Thank you so much for your kind and encouraging words Dimakatso! I really appreciate your support and am glad that sharing my brother’s story added meaning and honesty to the piece. It means a lot to know the message resonated and is sparking reflection, your encouragement truly motivates me to keep using my voice.

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    Sibongile

    This article is not only informative but touches base on the harsh realities of men who experience violence and are left go be ashamed

    What a great read

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      Thank you, Sibongile. Basetsana captured our attention with this beautifully written article that encourages awareness for all of us.

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      Basetsana Hlungwani

      Thank you so much, Sibongile. I really appreciate your kind words. I’m glad the article resonated and shed light on the often overlooked struggles men face, it’s so important to break the silence and stigma.

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